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“I’m speaking too quickly. Let me slow down.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Little by little, I started noticing things I had never paid attention to before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And it wasn’t only about physical behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I began observing my thoughts, emotions, and unconscious reactions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes, I would catch myself comparing myself to other people and think:<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Oh, Tram, you’re feeling jealous right now.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead of immediately judging myself for having that feeling, I started becoming curious about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why am I feeling this way? That curiosity led me to learn more about human behavior, psychology, and the way our minds work. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I stopped asking myself how I compared to others. I stopped measuring my progress against someone else\u2019s timeline because every individual in this world is different\u2014different starting points, different personalities, different paths, different circumstances, different everything. So instead, I started paying attention to my own journey<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We often spend years learning about the world, building careers, studying other people, and trying to become successful. But we don’t always spend enough time learning about the person we spend our entire lives with:<\/p>\n\n\n\n ourselves<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Over time, mindfulness became more than something I practiced during meditation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I started applying it to my career, my short-term goals, my long-term plans, and eventually, to the way I designed my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I began asking myself questions that I had never asked myself so seriously before<\/p>\n\n\n\n Who am I? Why did I come into this world? What are my strengths? What are my weaknesses? What can I do well? What can I not do yet? Where am I right now? Where do I want to go? Who do I want to become? What do I need to do to get there? What do I want to leave behind when I die?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n The more clearly I understood myself, the clearer my direction became.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I could look at where I was, look at where I wanted to be, and then work backward to figure out what needed to happen in between.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then I started making plans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Not just big, ambitious plans, but also small, practical steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Step by step, day by day… And surprisingly, it worked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There were moments when I achieved a goal or looked back and realized that almost everything I had planned had unfolded remarkably close to the way I had envisioned it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes, I thought: “Is this magic?”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n But looking back now, I realize it wasn’t magic at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It was the process of knowing myself, understanding where I wanted to go, and consciously working toward it every single day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mindfulness helped me become aware of where I was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That awareness helped me understand where I wanted to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And that clarity allowed me to consciously choose what I needed to do next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It wasn’t always perfect. Plans changed. Circumstances changed. I changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But because I was paying attention, I could adjust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I could notice when something wasn’t working.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I could understand why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I could change my approach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And then keep moving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For me, that is what mindfulness eventually became.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It taught me to pause before reacting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To notice before judging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To understand before changing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To observe before making a decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And, most importantly, to become a little more aware of myself every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I don’t practice mindfulness perfectly. I still get distracted. I still react emotionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But now, I notice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And sometimes, simply noticing is where change begins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because when you truly know where you are, you can decide where you want to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And when you consciously work toward it\u2014one small step at a time\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n the things that once seemed impossible can become possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This little thing changed my life and, more importantly, changed the way I live every single day. I still remember February 2023. I was going through so many challenges all at once: career uncertainty, personal growth, family responsibilities, and helping take care of my younger brother, who was struggling with a mental-health condition. Everything seemed […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_gspb_post_css":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-659","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\n
Where did this feeling come from?
What triggered it?
Is there something underneath it that I haven’t understood?
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